Monday Morning Music Ministry

3-3-25

This will be a short message this week. I am to be married, or will be when this is published. Since time immemorial, crazy preparations have accompanied marriage ceremonies, so I plead History. And I also want to extend mercy to my good friend and faithful Webmaster Norm Carlevato, who with his lovely wife Penelope will be attending the nuptials, all the way from eastern Tennessee to mid-Michigan. Fewer words for Norm to program…

Holy Matrimony is a “type” or picture of Christ and the Church – love, fidelity, and honor. We believe it to be an Ordinance, not a Sacrament; not affecting Salvation; but about as close to Heaven as we can be on this earth. We love our spouses as Christ loved the Church, and we submit to our spouses as we submit to Christ.

Well, enough theology, and we know the multitude of Biblical endorsements of marriage… and we know that, in the world, when societies disintegrate, it is the decline and dissolution of marriage and family life that always precedes the destruction. No truer barometer, and no exceptions to the relation.

So, the opposite is true. Healthy marriages represent a healthy culture. Happy homes make happy citizens. And heavenly love can be extended toward our spouses just as earnestly as toward the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.

In my case, Michelle (“Mickey”) is a special lady to whom I was first attracted by her faith. I honor (and have here, frequently) my precious wife Nancy, mother of my children, who endured many illnesses and went to be with the Lord 12 years ago. It is not inevitable, I think, that a threescore-and-10 guy like me would find another helpmeet for life. But God has ordained it.

A wife of noble character, who can find? She is far more precious than rubies (Proverbs 31:10).

So I ask for your prayers. When we sing and pray that Gospel song, “I Know Who Holds My Hand,” we might quickly think of our lover or spouse, romantically holding our hand. Certainly. But when we remember that God holds our hands, leading us on, protecting and guiding, it is a picture of clinging also to those who love us… and those we love.

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